12. PEACE AND NONVIOLENCE
"[We] seek to live in
the virtue of that life and power that takes away the occasion of all wars.
"
George Fox
ADVICE
We
seek peace within our own lives. Sometimes there are barriers to peace within
families and meetings, and among individuals. Anger and frustration may result
in hurtfulness which leaves physical, sexual or emotional wounds. Healing and
forgiveness are possible when our hearts are opened to the transforming love
that comes from the Spirit Within. The violence we oppose is not only war, but
all unloving acts.
Friends
seek peaceful resolution to conflicts among nations and peoples. Wars can
easily erupt when nations depend upon armed forces as an option for defense and
order. To oppose war is not enough if we fail to deal with the injustices and
inequalities that often lead to violence. We need to address the causes of war,
such as aggression, revenge, overpopulation, greed, and religious and ethnic
differences.
QUERY
What are we doing to educate ourselves and
others about the causes of conflict in our own lives, our families and our
meetings? Do we provide refuge and assistance, including advocacy, for spouses,
children; or elderly persons who are victims of violence or neglect?
Do we recognize that we can be perpetrators as
well as victims of violence? How do we deal with this? How can we support one another so that healing may take
place?
What are we doing to understand the causes of
war and violence and to work toward peaceful settlement of differences locally,
nationally, and internationally? How do we support institutions and
organizations that promote peace?
Do we faithfully maintain our, testimony
against preparation for and participation in war?