SEXUALITY

Our sexuality shapes and colors our entire lives, regardless of our marital status. It is basic to our emotions and to our creative impulses. Decisions on how best to express our sexual nature are made by each of us, under the influence of our backgrounds and beliefs. The following guidelines are recommended in making such decisions.

Deep respect for that of God in each person means that our relationships should be free of exploitation. Fundamental to all good relationships is honesty. Without honesty, the dangers of exploitation and hurt become great.

The drive for physical intimacy is associated in human beings with a need for closeness on other levels as well. The loneliness we seek to overcome in our relationships cannot be banished with sexual contacts without love and concern. Even the physical experience is lessened when it is not accompanied by mutual caring and total commitment.

Unwanted pregnancies and venereal disease are still threats in spite of modern medicine and should not be ignored.

We believe that consideration of these points will lead us to uphold the ideal of premarital chastity. It is our belief that in marriage, we can have the greatest opportunity to reach the ultimate goal of a loving relationship.