IOWA CITY FRIENDS MEETING NEWSLETTER
Sixth Month — June 2002

Edward J. COWLES  1918-2002

 

Ed Cowles, an attender of Iowa City Friends Meeting since 1999, died at the Iowa City Rehabilitation and Health Care Center on Friday, 31 May.  A longtime resident of Duluth, Minnesota, he moved to Iowa City following his retirement to join his daughter Kate Cowles, also an attender of our Meeting.

 

Born in Idaho and raised largely on a farm in eastern Washington State, Ed taught for many years at the College of Science and Engineering of the University of Minnesota Duluth.   As a conscientious objector during World War II, Ed volunteered as an experimental subject in the Semi-Starvation Project at the University of Minnesota.  After several months of a near-starvation diet, participants tested various approaches to rehabilitation in the hope that ways could be found to save the lives of malnourished victims of the war.  Ed’s experience in this project helped to inform a life of peacemaking and social concern.  Our meeting first came to know Ed a few years before he moved here, when he gave a moving talk about his experiences in the project.

 

A memorial Meeting for Worship was held at the Iowa City Friends Meeting House  on Monday, 3 June.  We all miss Ed’s gentle presence among us, and ask that Friends hold him and his family in the Light.

SPECIAL EVENTS

 

Iowa Yearly Meeting – 16-21 July 2002 at Scattergood Friends School near West Branch.  Programs and schedules may be picked up at the Meeting House, or may be found on the Internet at http://www.quakernet.org/.

Regular Events

Worship - We gather for worship on Sundays at 10:00 a.m.

First Day School meets 15 minutes after the start of worship in an upstairs room of the meeting house.  

Ministry and Oversight normally meets on the fourth Sunday of the month at 9:00 a.m.

Potluck is held the first Sunday of the month following meeting for worship. 

Business Meeting is the second Sunday of the month following worship and snacks.

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ICFM is scheduled to volunteer for Free Lunch Program - 4th Wed. of the month at Wesley House kitchen (335-6283). Let Jean Cadoret (644-2746) know when you can help prep, serve, clean up. Contact Rebecca Rosenbaum (337-5187) if you can help with clean-up for Free Lunch, or drop in between 12:00 & 1:30.

 

We are aware that some who attend meeting are allergic to perfume, so we are asking folks not to wear it to meeting.

 

Iowa City Monthly Meeting of Friends

Meeting for Business

Sixth Month 2002 (9 June)

 

Present: Ruth Dawson (Clerk), Tim Shipe, Susan Murty, Roberta Golliher, Geraldine Zuercher, Elsie Kuhn, Gerry Clamon, Cheryll Clamon

 

Treasurer’s Report:  The Treasurer’s Report was presented and approved.

 

Ministry and Oversight.  The Ministry and Oversight report is attached.  A draft of the State of the Meeting report was presented and approved. 

 

Yearly Meeting.  Other Yearly Meeting reports have been assigned.  We have sent a record number of query responses (nine) to Yearly Meeting.  We have appointed Jeff Cox and Ruth Dawson as Yearly Meeting Representatives, and Ruth Dawson as member of the Yearly Meeting Nominating Committee.

 

Nominating Committee.  We have appointed a Monthly Meeting Nominating Committee consisting of Kate Cowles (convener), Ruth Dawson, Tim Shipe, and Tim Barrett and/or Jodie Plumert. 

 

Respectfully submitted

Timothy Shipe

 

 

Volunteer still needed for Yearly Meeting Ministry and Oversight

 

One of Iowa City Meeting’s positions on the Yearly Meeting Ministry and Oversight Committee will become vacant this summer.  If you would like to volunteer for this, or would like to know what the position entails, please contact Ruth Dawson.   This would be a great way to get to know people in the broader Friends community. 

 

Ministry & Oversight Report for 5/19/02

 

Present:  Tim Shipe, Ruth Dawson, Elsie Kuhn

 

We discussed plans for hosting the Eastern Iowa Gathering to be held Sunday, May 26th at the Iowa City Friends Meeting House. 

            Ruth reminds us that committee reports for Iowa Yearly Meeting from our meeting are due at the next meeting for business. We will form a nominating committee to facilitate filling vacancies on committees for the coming year.

 

Response to Query #4 Harmony Within the Meeting 5/19/02 (to be sent to Yearly Meeting)

 

We believe the last question of the query section articulates well the Friends values we wish to express in all areas of our lives: “Do we look to that of God in ourselves and seek to address that of God in those with whom we disagree?” The scripture at the beginning is timeless: “This is my commandment. Love one another as I have loved you.” John 15:1.  Much of the interaction in our meeting happens at announcement time when we are told of events happening in the larger community or when the children share what they did in First Day School with the larger group. We have  discussions of a more informal nature when we gather for potluck or snacks.  Our meeting is not a very vocal one; however, messages given during meeting for worship arise from the heart and are received with appreciation by those in attendance. Duties within the meeting are shared fairly equally among us. The children benefit by our example as we participate in interchangeable gender roles.

 

State of the Meeting Report

(for the Iowa City Friends Meeting, 2001-02)

 

While the Iowa City Friends Meeting is a small group, we feel deep kinship with Friends everywhere from our contacts with Iowa Yearly Meeting, Mid-Yearly Meeting, Eastern Iowa Gathering of Friends, and through our members and attenders who have moved to other meetings and maintain contact with us.

 

During the past year we have joined with other Friends and other groups as we sought to gain understanding of world problems illuminated by the events of September 11, 2001.  We held thought-provoking discussions on the spiritual basis for the Peace Testimony as it applies to actions we can take, individually or as a meeting.  This led us to rediscover the importance of becoming more centered within ourselves and more focused as a meeting in order to become more effective in the actions we take towards creating a more peaceful world.

 

In seeking ways to make meeting for worship more meaningful, we have held pre-meeting discussions on the Pendle Hill Pamphlet by Beatrice Saxon Snell, “A Joint and Visible Fellowship,” which focuses on preparing for worship and learning how to center in worship. In addition, we read Thomas Kelly’s A Testament of Devotion, which builds on the worship experience.

 

The joyful arrival of Federica Garcia-Lehmann occurred on August 4, 2001, to Erika Lehmann, John Garcia and proud older sister, Clara Garcia-Lehmann.

 

Ann McMillan arrived as the new meetinghouse caretaker in October.  Soon after Ann’s move into the meetinghouse, she was confronted with numerous bats in the upstairs of the house. Ann was a model of patience during the time it took the house and grounds committee to seek an effective, humane way to get rid of the bats. We appreciate Ann’s welcoming presence at the meetinghouse.

 

Ed Cowles, father of Kate Cowles, died on May 31, 2002.  He was a regular attender of our meeting. While he was residing at the Iowa City Rehabilitation Center, several folks from our meeting joined him there for a meaningful meeting for worship. His gentle presence will be missed in our meeting.

 

The Iowa City Friends Meeting hosted the Eastern Iowa Gathering of Friends on May 26.  During potluck, Bill Douglas, from the Des Moines Valley Friends Meeting, spoke on “Leaving the Porch Light On,” giving a short history of conscientious objection. This was followed by lively discussion and fellowship. 

 

We are thrilled with the addition of several children to the meeting, who eagerly share their artwork from First Day School. They give individual messages by interpreting their drawings to the group at the end of meeting for worship.

 

Query 7

Home and Family

 

Advice

     We seek an atmosphere within our homes and within our families which nurtures the many physical, social, spiritual, and emotional needs of each of us.  This is true whether we live alone or with others.

     A family, whatever its composition, is a unique and sometimes fragile bonding of people; at its best, it is concerned with the welfare of the whole and each of its constituents.

     Children bring gifts to the families that nurture them.  Our children's earliest encounters with the principles of Friends usually occur within our homes.  Examples we set are often more effective than verbal guidance.  The loving support of the meeting is needed as children learn to understand and practice Quaker principles in their lives.

     While we try to make our homes centers of love, we sometimes feel anger and hostility.  Part of the challenge of being human is to learn constructive ways to channel these feelings, relying on the Divine Spirit for love and guidance.  Worship in the home can enable us to "hold ourselves and one another in the Light."  Respect for truth, as each discerns it, is essential to the happiness and spiritual growth of all persons within the home.  Clear communication, patience and a sense of humor are vital to family relationships.

     We value setting aside time for rest, recreation, and creative activities.  Offering hospitality can foster mutual bonds of friendship and love and enrich our own lives and the lives of others.

 


Query

     How can we make our homes places of love and hospitality?

     What different expectations do we hold for women and men, boys and girls?  How can we bring more equality into our relationships?

     How do we develop and maintain lines of communication?

     In what ways do we share our deepest experiences, struggles, concerns and beliefs with our children and others, yet encourage them to develop their potential as the Spirit leads them?

     What place do we make in our daily lives for meditation, spiritual renewal and the reading of inspiring literature, such as the Bible?

     How does the meeting support families of all kinds?

Iowa City Friends Meeting Committees

 

Clerk:    Ruth Dawson

Recording Clerk: Tim Shipe

Ministry & Oversight: Elsie Kuhn (convener), Tim Shipe, Ruth Dawson, Perry Howell, Judith Pascoe, Micah Pulleyn

Building & Grounds: Jeff Cox (convener),  Lea Haravon-Collins, Brendan Holly,  Steve Tatum

Treasurer:   Susan  Murty.

Peace & Social Concerns: Quinn Dilkes and Kate Cowles (co-conveners), Jeff Cox, Holly Hart

Representative to Emergency Housing Project: Holly Hart

Librarian: Judith Pascoe

Religious Education: Perry Howell and Judith Pascoe (co-conveners), Carolyn Turvey, Tim Barrett, Jodie Plumert, Micah Pulleyn

Representative to Consultation of Religious Communities (CRC) of Iowa City:. Ruth Dawson

Newsletter: Editor:  Tim Shipe  (Please send news to Tim at moonship@ia.net with a subject line of "Friends' newsletter.").  Distributor:  Liz Moon  (If you're currently receiving this newsletter in print form (via U.S. mail or by picking it up at meeting), but would prefer to receive it electronically, please forward your e-mail address to Liz Moon at  moonship@ia.net.)